"Walk every road — mistakes are your curriculum Asked whether he'd go back in time to change a past relationship, Vaughn initially said yes, then corrected himself: "you have to travel down every road you travel down and you don't get to learn those lessons without making those mistakes." He went further, noting that even if you could return, "you'd fuck up some other shit" or "just maybe push the lesson till later." The implication is that regret-based revisionism misunderstands how growth works — the painful experience was the price of admission for the version of yourself that now knows better, and that version is more valuable than the clean slate would have been. Source: Vince Vaughn, Theo Von Podcast, Vince Vaughn Episode"